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crapping on people's happiness

Am I the only one who is baffled by others who just feel the need to take a crap on people's happiness? Like it literally


I see it allllll over social media. Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, blah blah blah. The outlets are endless, and people utilize the crap out of them. Thankfully, people I know are somewhat smart and considerate enough to keep their negative thoughts to themselves in person, but yet they somehow spew everything out on social media.


Does it make you feel better to type it out and share it with strangers? I mean I guess I get the same high from sharing positive thoughts and happy experiences. But to me, that's pretty standard. People like to share happy things, right?

I saw this blog post, "The 5 Most Annoying Facebook Posts About Being Engaged" (hate to even give it attention), but it straight up pissed me off. Maybe it's because I am engaged, but still. I think it is just another example of people taking their insecurities, jealousies, and straight-up grumpiness out on the keys of their keyboard.

I'm completely guilty of all 5 of these "most annoying posts" and I DGAF. I'm freaking thrilled to be marrying my best friend, which apparently is super annoying to even call him that. I guess I should be marrying some Joe-Shmo who doesn't support me, love me, and value me as a best friend would.

I've been through my share of messy, immature, used, unfortunately some abusive relationships. So, please excuuuse me that I am thrilled to have found "the one." I'm sorry (I ain't really) that I didn't become cynical and a non-believer in love and a destroyer of others' relationship happiness. Nope, I grew from it and found a far better relationship because I remained positive and happy for others.

And yes, I received a beautiful ring on that little finger and I will throw it up for photos as much as I damn well please.

The energy you put out is what you receive. I truly believe that.

It's not even just crapping on people who are engaged. It's crapping on people who get promotions because YOU'RE unhappy with YOUR job. It's crapping on other people's friendships because YOU'RE unhappy with how YOUR friends treat you. It's crapping on other people's days off because YOU have to work a double. It's crapping on other people's bodies because YOU'RE unhappy with yours, yet do nothing to change it. It's crapping on other people's ANYTHING because YOU are unhappy with yourself.

Let me tell you something...taking a dump on someone else's accomplishments, days off, bodies, engagements, friendships, relationships, jobs, etc...won't make YOUR life any better.

So...next time you feel like dropping a load, think about it.

End rant.



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